I Won’t Cry…

Today was the day! Today was Johanna’s first day of big girl school and she rocked it like a boss!

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When she woke up this morning we clapped our hands and told her it was time to get ready for school and she was so excited! She smiled real big and smothered the cat in a hug, then she was off to get dressed. When we got downstairs I surprised her with her Doctor McStuffins backpack and she was over the moon. She did NOT want to put it down. When we got outside she did not want to get in the car because she thought she was going to walk to school lol. Ummm, Johanna, while the school is in the neighborhood, ma’am, it’s a mile walk. We’re not doing that today lol.

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When we got to school she was all smiles. I helped her put on her backpack and she was ready to go! We took her to her classroom and the teachers were very welcoming. Johanna sat down and DH gave her the breakfast he prepared (pancakes, banana, and orange juice). Johanna slightly ate a banana, but didn’t really want it. She was too busy checking out the classroom. We put her things away, spoke to the teachers, then told her bye. I knew she was going to be fine when she gave me a kiss goodbye. We left to handle some administrative stuff, then returned to the classroom to peep in through the back door to see what she was doing. I love my daughter. I love her manners. She sat there eagerly watching the other kids play, but would turn around and place her hands in her lap patiently waiting to be dismissed from breakfast. Even at daycare she was like that. She would not get up from the table to go play until she was properly dismissed. DH and I went back in the classroom to help her pack up the breakfast and then she was excused to play and she started having a ball. She played cars with another little girl and enthusiastically ran up to me with two of them. She was so excited! I was so happy that she was happy. We told her we were leaving and she happily said bye mama! Bye dada! That warmed my heart. I was ok. Mama wasn’t gonna cry. Babygirl is going to rock school and I know they will take good care of her because seriously, who wants to deal with me if they don’t O_o.

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A moment ago DH called to ask me how I wasn’t crying lol. I sent him the pictures we took this morning and he was teary eyed. His baby was off to school. Normally I would be teary eyed, but I know that she is ok, so I’m ok. And by October school will be an everyday thing that we’re all used to.

I’m wishing all of the kids, especially those in the DMV area, a wonderful, prosperous, fantastic, super fun, super thought provoking new school year. I’m saying a prayer and sprinkling success dust on all of you.

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Mommy Guilt

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This week was a bit of a whirlwind. Between finding Johanna a new school and being sick, I’m exhausted. On Monday Johanna had her very first dentist appointment and she did beautifully. As you can see, she was so full of glee that she couldn’t stand still. This dentist office was very fun looking and kid friendly. The dentist himself was very gentle with Johanna and we appreciated that. She was an angel for him, opening up wide for him to brush her teeth, which is exactly the opposite of what she does for us at home.

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After the dentist appointment we visited the daycare facility in the city. Of course Johanna loved their playground like I thought she would lol. We didn’t have many reservations about the place but on this second visit it was a bit cluttered to me. At her current daycare they clean as they go so it’s never really a mess in there. Just an observation.

Lastly we visited the Christian Academy in our neighborhood. We met with the Executive Director and things were great. We went on a tour and mommy got sad a bit. Although she won’t be sitting at a desk, she will be in a real deal classroom. It is just a switch from the daycare to the classroom and I got a little emotional on the inside thinking of my baby growing up. I don’t like it lol.  It’s bad enough that her favorite saying right now is “I’ll do it, all by myself!”Le sigh.

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Yesterday was Orientation at the new school. Johanna got to visit her classroom and meet her new teachers. She had a ball because the new classroom meant new toys lol. As the room started filling up she got a little shy and wanted to sit in my lap, but she was still smiling. That made me feel good. Maybe she’ll be just fine. We were also able to pick up some school uniforms for her and hear about some programs that the school offers. Johanna can participate in the STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics) program even at the PreK-2 level! I think that is fabulous. They will also teach her spanish and sign language, AND they take then for tumbling lessons once a week. Very cool if you ask me.

Well this morning brought with it mommy guilt. This is Johanna’s last day at Day Care. Of course I’m freaking out on the inside wondering if we are doing the right thing. I do NOT want to damage her in anyway. My worse nightmare is that this turns out to be really bad and she is scarred for life. I’ve tried explaining to her all week that this will be the last time she sees her teachers at the daycare and that she starts a new school on Monday. She says ok and nods her head, but she’s 2.5. I don’t know how much she really understands. Anyway, when her dad dropped her off this morning he said that the teachers were all really sad and in tears O_O. Thanks you guys. You’re making this so easy on me (NOT), I feel so bad. I know that she loves them and that they care for her. She’s been there for a whole year and she’s use to them. I feel evil now tossing her into a new program. However, as I explain to people the fact that the new program will be $250 less letting us exhale a tiny bit easier, that she will be in uniforms so we don’t have to spend as much on clothes, that her cousins go there and that the programs they offer are really good, I know we’re making the right decision. I just pray she sees it the same eventually. I guess this is one of those moments where the kids don’t understand why mom and dad did what they did, until they are older and have kids of their own.

Say a little prayer to Jesus for me and Johanna. I think dad is fine. But mom is having a bit of a meltdown :-/

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Kidriffic Events for August 16-18, 2013

Hello my luvs. I hope everyone had a great week and has great things planned for the weekend. If you don’t, I have your weekend events right here. Tomorrow Johanna and I are meeting friends for lunch, then hopefully we’ll kick the soccer ball around for a while. Sunday is made for Church and relaxation. Enjoy your weekend!

Montgomery County Fair
596 N. Frederick Ave.
When: Now – Saturday, August 17
Admission: $10, Children 11 & Under Free
Enjoy the fair before time is up! Fair food, great rides, and cute animals. What more could you ask for?

Arts & Humanities Festival
St. Elizabeth’s East
1100 Alabama Avenue SE
When: Saturday-Sunday, 11am – 6pm
Admission: Free
A festival to celebrate the history and culture of Ward 8. There will be live performances, plenty of activities and workshops.

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1st Johannas Mama Giveaway Winner!

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Eek! I can’t believe I just hosted my first giveaway! It was so much fun. I have a very exciting one planned for all the mamas out there in the near future that I can’t wait to tell you about. But for now, let’s get to the H&M Meets Back-To-School Giveaway.

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Loreal!

Congratulations my luv! I will be in touch with you to discuss how you want to receive your prize. Thank you for participating and I hope your little one has a great first day of school!

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Need a Daycare? Save Your Pennies

1303685261_187932135_1-Pictures-of--Family-Day-Care-Home-Homestead-FLI just got back from touring a new daycare facility for Johanna. I really like the Director and teachers at her current daycare, but I’m afraid they aren’t equipped to help her get where she needs to be in a few areas. Her speech is fine, but it could be much better, as well as a few other things. This is going to be hard because she adores her teachers, and you all know about the separation anxiety she was suffering. I’m not looking forward to this adjustment period.

On this search for daycare a second time around, I got frustrated all over again. I ended up exclaiming to a friend that it should not be this hard to find good daycare! Daycare should NOT be this expensive! A good Education and Daycare should be free for all. A parent shouldn’t have to decide whether they are going to sacrifice having electricity or live in a shoebox in order to afford daycare. From my search the average cost of daycare in DC is about $1650. That’s right, $1650. And I said that was about average. Some daycare’s cost $2200/m! That’s right. That’s a mortgage and some more stuff. That is ri-damn-diculous! Now, Johanna is in a two parent, two income household. How in the world do single mothers afford having kids? My hats off to them because we feel like we’re drowning with the two of us. We need for Johanna to get a job. She’s cute, she can model. I kid! Sort of. Ok, probably not, but whatevs, judge me.

While a lot of parents do want to leave their kids and put them in daycare, there are a lot that don’t and find it a necessary evil because they have to get back to work. Something has to give. Caregivers are being paid $10/hr and it leaves you to wonder where exactly the rest of that money goes. Think about it. If a center is making $1650 per child, and in one classroom alone there are 12 students, that is 19800. That’s $6600 per month per teacher in that classroom. Yet they bring home $1600 a month (this is all untaxed of course). Where da heck does the rest go? Because most daycares are not just one classroom, there are at least 3 other classes with 12 kids in there. Also, if you are bringing your child in as an infant you are paying even more. It’s bananas. I really wish society would refocus. I understand that nfl, nba, etc. players entertain us, but honestly, we need to pay those industries less and put more money and time into education.

My rants over, for now. All I know is that it took me quite sometime to find daycare options in my price range and even with I did find them, I had to worry about wait-lists. Did you know you could be on a wait-list for a daycare for years? Seriously. Someone told me they were on a wait-list so long that their son wasn’t able to benefit from the daycare (he is now in 2nd grade), but his little brother who was recently born will be able to because that spot that their mother signed up for years ago JUST became open O_O.

The moral of this story? If you plan on ever having kids, research daycare centers now. When you think you may want to try for a baby, put yourself on the waiting lists out there. There’s a good chance a spot won’t be available by the time you give birth. Save your pennies now. I’m not being facetious. The struggle for good, affordable daycare is real. Be prepared. And lastly, pay attention to what’s happening with education in this country and let your voice be heard. Nothings going to change unless we are proactive in our own lives.

Johanna visits the daycare on Monday. Wish us luck. We’re going to need it.

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